Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Books. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

The Very Long Weekend

It has been strange weekend. We had such great plans for Saturday and Sunday... we were going to take a road trip and spend the weekend snow tubing and hanging out at an indoor water park. What actually happened is that, at approximately 7:18 p.m. Friday night, Tim got hit with some sort of terrible 48-hour flu. So we cancelled those plans and stayed indoors FOREVER. Yesterday I got sick and had to miss our MLK plans. 

Now today we're having a "DC Snowday" which is when everything is cancelled and shut down not because it's actually snowing, but because they're pretty sure it might snow, possibly, sometime soon (it's 11:30 here and the snow just started). One way or another, Tim and I got the day off and I'm making Pasta e Fagioli (i.e., pasta fazool), so, Thanks DC, for your wonderful overreaction to all things weather-related.

As promised, here are my top ten favorite books from last year, in no particular order.

Nova by Samuel R. Delany
I love science fiction, but with a strong qualifier: I love science fiction movies and television, but have never been a huge Science Fiction reader.  Science Fiction novels just aren't as enthralling to me as seeing it on the screen. (Terrible, right?) Nova, however, is one of the more brilliant books I've read in the past few years, in any genre. I'm not sure why it's not more famous (it was nominated for a Hugo Award in 1969, at least). The plot is standard fare: the captain of a star ship puts together a ragtag crew of misfits to embark on a seemingly hopeless quest across the universe that is both personal and political.  The writing, however, is intensely beautiful and the imagery is bold.  The story resonates with mythology: something I'm a huge sucker for.  Given that Samuel Delaney was born in Harlem about 20 years after the Harlem Renaissance, this should all be no big surprise. Basically, I turned the last page and felt like I'd just eaten a rich and satisfying piece of cake, which is exactly how the best books should make you feel.

True Grit by Charles Portis
Just listen to the first paragraph of the book:

People do not give it credence that a fourteen-year-old girl could leave home and go off in the wintertime to avenge her father's blood but it did not seem so strange them, although I will say it did not happen every day.  I was just fourteen years of age when a coward going by the name of Tom Chaney shot my father down in Fort Smith, Arkansas, and robbed him of his life and his horse and $150 in cash money plus two California gold pieces that he carried in his trouser band. 
Here is what happened.

TELL ME that that doesn't make you want to read the rest of the book. You can't. This wonderful little book is told from the POV of Mattie, who has bigger cojones than any character in any Western I've ever read. She is fearless and driven and completely no-nonsense and I'm totally in love with her. The writing is tight and strong and fast-paced and when you reach the end, you feel inclined to flip back to the first page and read it all over again. This book is a pleasure if for no other reason than the amazing way that Mattie verbally eviscerates the drunken, stupid, slovenly men she's forced to rely on for help. Just amazing.

Where'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple
This book was on all the best seller lists last year for a very good reason: it's both funny and touching, without being cheesy. This is a novel about a family, a mother, a father, and their daughter. When the mother, Bernadette, disappears, 15-year-old Bee begins putting together the pieces of the puzzle. The whole book is great, but some of the individual scenes alone are enough to make it a worth-while read, including one particularly satisfying scene taking place at a PTO-like event organized by Bernadette's arch nemesis. This is what happens with beautiful, creative people with genius IQs are left to their own devices and it's fantastic.

The Dangerous Animals Club by Stephen Tobolowsky
If you don't know Stephen Tobolowsky's name, I'm 100% certain that you would recognize his face. He has 226 acting credits on IMDB. Though I know and love him most as Ned Ryerson from Groundhog Day. This was a surprising memoir for me; it was more literary than your typical "celebrity" memoir and more well-rounded. It made me nostalgic for things I didn't even know existed. It reminded me of something Stephen King might write, if he had been an actor instead of a writer, maybe because King and Tobolowsky are only a few years apart in age? Nevertheless, I thoroughly enjoyed this collection of stories from Tobolowsky's life, even if the two of us seem to have very little in common.

Those of you from the South will, I think, find this one particularly resonant. Also those of you who got degrees in literature from a Liberal Arts school with a strong gender studies leaning. These stories are magical and lovely and sad and mystifying all at once. 'Nuff said.



Joyland by Stephen King
I just can't help it. I just love Stephen King (when he's on his A-game) with every fiber of the marrow in my bones down to the very bottom of my soul.  This book isn't particularly deep or unusual, but it's just satisfying and wonderful and I read the entire thing in one sitting. Joyland is a pulp-fiction murder mystery set in an old amusement park and peopled with your typical amusement-park type characters and it has everything you might want and expect from that sort of book, in addition to having a very satisfying coming-of-age story that makes you feel the way the movie Stand by Me makes you feel. Loved every page of it. (I liked this one better than Dr. Sleep, in case you wondered.)

Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn
After reading Gone Girl, I picked up Gillian Flynn's other two books with a swiftness and found that both of them were also page-turners. While I (and everyone else, apparently) enjoyed Gone Girl (and that twist!) I think this is actually my favorite of the three books. I think what I enjoyed about it is that while there are lots of books in the world about relationships between men and women, there are not as many about relationships between mothers and daughters, or even just women and girls' relationships to one another--and especially not many so gritty and disturbing. My relationship with my mother is NOTHING like the pair in this book and so it was like watching an epic train wreck and not being able to look away.

The Orphan Master's Son by Adam Johnson
I might go so far as to say this was my favorite book of 2013. I am totally fascinated by/terrified of North Korea and I think that this is the first piece of fiction I've ever read about it. This book is masterfully written (it won the Pulitzer), gripping, imaginative, haunting... etc. etc.etc. on and on ad infinitum. I have no way of knowing if the North Korea described in this book is accurate or not, but it doesn't matter. The places and people and culture described in this novel are moving and disturbing all the same.

Another memoir, this time by the Bloggess herself. I'm fairly certain almost everyone I know has already read this, so I'm not going to go on about it too much.   Jenny Lawson writes about her absurd life with a delicious awareness of said absurdity and of her own (sometimes amusing, sometimes debilitating) fatal flaws, and everyone in the world is the better for it. Period.


The Silence of the Lambs by Thomas Harris
One of the rare instances when the book and the film stand on (almost) equal footing. I would not go so far as to say this book is excellent, but it is surprisingly good.  One of the reasons it stood out for me was that, despite being written and published in the 80's, its point of view is ahead of its time.  I like to read the older novels that famous movies are based on, sometimes to my own detriment. This year I attempted to read The Exorcist and was so disgusted by its cheesy, sexist, overly hysterical vapidness that I put it down 30 pages in. Written when it was, it would have been easy for The Silence of the Lambs to be just as sexist and narrow-minded, but I can't stress enough how happy I was to find that wasn't the case.  The main character of the book is a female FBI agent who has to deal with sexism and stupidity all around her, and who does it fiercely. Her best friend is another female FBI agent, who is African American. The victim is the daughter of a powerful female senator. The villain is a man who wants to be a woman, but this is very important: the book goes out of its way to emphasize that that is not what makes him a deviant. He's "deviant" because he kills people, not because he's transgendered. He's an anomaly. I could go on and on about this forever. I wish I'd read this in college because I would have written an INSANE paper about it.

Honorable Mention:

The Ocean at the End of the Lane by Neil Gaiman: a modern fairy tale.

Gulp: Adventures on the Alimentary Canal by Mary Roach: a hilarious book about the human digestive tract.

Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell: a refreshing teen romance.

Habibi by Craig Thompson: a stunning graphic novel about the depths of love.

Green River, Running Red: The Real Story of the Green River Killer--America's Deadliest Serial Murderer by Ann Rule: a classic in the True Crime genre, only to be read if you don't mind worrying that everyone around you is a serial killer for three months afterward.

Dishonorable mention: AKA, I read them so you don't have to:

Zombie by Joyce Carol Oates: Obviously, I like disturbing books, but I got absolutely NO enjoyment out of reading this awful book.

The Middlesteins by Jami Attenberg: A depressing book about obesity with zero reward or redemption.

Him Her Him Again the End of Him by Patricia Marx: so promising, to little payoff.

Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld: PLEASE STOP COMPLAINING. I HATE YOU.



Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Just a List



Well, I promised to post about the books I read in 2013. It turns out that 60 books is a lot more than my brain can process in one sitting. Stay tuned for reviews of the top ten best books I read this year, but in the meantime here's the straight-up list. See if you can read it without your brain exploding.

Zombie, Oates, Joyce Carol
Assassination Vacation, Vowell, Sarah
Nova, Delany, Samuel R.
True Grit, Portis, Charles
Prep, Sittenfeld, Curtis
Heartburn, Ephron, Nora
Divergent (Divergent, #1), Roth, Veronica 
Stardust, Gaiman, Neil 
Ragtime, Doctorow, E.L.
Where'd You Go, Bernadette, Semple, Maria 
Habibi, Thompson, Craig
The Fault in Our Stars, Green, John 
Atonement, McEwan, Ian
Eleanor & Park, Rowell, Rainbow 
The Dangerous Animals Club, Tobolowsky, Stephen
Joyland, King, Stephen 
Lotería, Zambrano, Mario Alberto 
Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness, Cahalan, Susannah 
Coraline, Gaiman, Neil 
Kafka on the Shore, Murakami, Haruki
Tobacco Road, Caldwell, Erskine
The Middlesteins, Attenberg, Jami 
Dark Places, Flynn, Gillian 
Maniac Magee, Spinelli, Jerry
Little Bee, Cleave, Chris 
Sharp Objects, Flynn, Gillian 
The God of Small Things, Roy, Arundhati
How to Be a Woman, Moran, Caitlin
The Orphan Master's Son, Johnson, Adam
The Unraveling (Wool, #4), Howey, Hugh 
Casting Off (Wool, #3), Howey, Hugh 
Proper Gauge (Wool, #2), Howey, Hugh 
Wool (Wool, #1), Howey, Hugh 

Saturday, April 06, 2013

Perspective for Beginners

You know that thing where you leave work early because you're sick, then you fall asleep at 4:00 in the afternoon and wake up at 3:00 am and can't go back to sleep? Yeah, that.

This has been a supremely strange couple of months. Partially because it's odd for Tim and I to both be fully employed (one or both of us has been in school or working part time for the past five years), and partially because we work in the same place. It sort of like being in college again. We have totally different and separate jobs, but we commute together in the morning, we eat lunch together, we work out in the same gym, and our work happy-hours are all at the same places. There's also just as much gossip as there was at the TKE house, but with more... you know... saving the world.

The keyword for me lately has been, "perspective." Which is another way of saying I've become moderately obsessed with North Korea. Basically, I've been reading lots of books and articles, and watching terrifying documentaries about it, causing me to think, with everything that happens in my life: "At least I don't live in North Korea."

Don't feel like cooking dinner? At least you don't live in North Korea.
Had a bad day at work? At least you don't live in North Korea.
Credit card bills? North Korea.
Allergies? North. Korea.

Totally non-sequitur picture of Mexico.
Maybe all of this information I'm getting is total capitalist propaganda, but I'm a sucker.

There is one thing I've been sad about that's hard to put into perspective: this weekend is mom's 50th birthday (Happy birthday, Mama!), and I realize that not only will I have missed BOTH of my parents' 50th birthdays, I've missed more of their birthdays than I've spent with them. And I don't think I've spent a single mother's or father's day with them since I was about 8 years old.  So, while this is still better than living in North Korea, I have these daily moments where I think, "I have two wonderful parents and it is insane for me to spend so much time so far away from them." I'm glad they taught me to be independent, but this probably isn't what they had in mind.

Anyway, needless to say I've read a lot of books since the last time I posted. Rather than attempting to write a book review at this time of night/morning here is a list of excellent books for getting some perspective and learning to appreciate life, especially when you think it's crappy, but it's probably not.

  1. The Grapes of Wrath, by John Steinbeck: This is a no-brainer. I feel bad about gaining like 15 pounds since the wedding... but at least I'm not a tenant farmer. During the dust bowl.
  2. She's Come Undone, by Wally Lamb: I hated the main character times a million, which is why I'm glad every day that nothing in my life resembles anything that happens in this book.
  3. The Orphan Master's Son, by Adam Johnson: This is what I'm currently reading. It's about... North Korea.
  4. Carrie, by Stephen King: I can almost guarantee that your mom is way better than Carrie's mom and no one every poured blood all over you.
  5. The Giver, by Lois Lowry: see also Brave New World, V for Vendetta, The Handmaid's Tale, and 1984, etc.
  6. Zodiac, by Robert Graysmith: because, serial killers.
  7. My Lobotomy, by Howard Dully: because, lobotomies.
  8. Cry, the Beloved Country, by Alan Paton: because, apartheid.
  9. Brother, I'm Dying, by Edwidge Danticat: A totally eye-opening memoir about Haiti and the US by one of the best living writers, makes you realize how being born in the US--or not--changes everything.
  10. Where Men Win Glory: The Odyssey of Pat Tillman, by Jon Krakauer: Jaw-dropping non-fiction makes you realize that even people born in the US can get screwed by their country.
And since perspective can be nice, but also sometimes super depressing, here are some books by women who are smart, beautiful, and funny all at once. These perspectives involve a lot more fart jokes.
  1. The Bedwetter: Stories of Courage, Redemption, and Pee, by Sarah Silverman
  2. Is Everybody Hanging Out Without Me?, by Mindy Kaling
  3. Bossypants, by Tina Fey
  4. Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir, by Jenny Lawson (AKA The Bloggess) 
  5. Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, by Chuck Klosterman (ok, technically this book is by a man, but it's 4:30 in the morning and birds are singing... what do you want from me?)
Now go have some pancakes and catch a matinee.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

The On-going Saga

Mugi and I are currently sitting in a sunbeam, doing just about nothing. We do this a lot lately.

But not for long, god and the gov'ment willing. Over a month ago (in the beginning of December, actually) I got a new job at the State Department. I shake my fists in victory! But hold up: my projected start date was first January 2, then January 14. Then it was maybe hoping for January 22, and now finally... I might actually get to start tomorrow.

So, I'm in the odd position where every day for the past few weeks has been my "OFFICIAL LAST DAY OF UNEMPLOYMENT." Which is like girls gone wild in my brain, but it can't hold up forever. I keep eating cookies like it's the last day before I start dieting, but the diet never comes.

Anyway. I've been reading a lot in this downtime (in the same way that my heart has been beating and my lungs have been pumping). But I've been re-reading Harry Potter, which I don't think anyone cares about. I've got a few other books for you, however, that don't take place at Hogwarts.

The Silence of the Lambs
by Thomas Harris

Reading books that gave birth to popular films is a little hard. Your brain has a lot of preconceived notions and whether you decide to give in to them or resist, it can make things awkward. Case in point: Minerva McGonagall will always be Maggie Smith, and Hannibal Lecter? He's Anthony Hopkins no matter what.

If you're not familiar with this story, it's about a student who gets pulled into the search for a serial killer who is skinning young women and dumping their bodies.  Having no leads, the FBI sends her to discuss the case with Hannibal "the cannibal" Lector, a psychiatrist famous for... well... eating his patients.

Here's what I liked about the book: it was written in 1975, and yet it's marvelously current. The main character is a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman who is also human, and she has conversations with other strong women about things other than men (The Bechdel Test, y'all! Applies in books too.).

It always bothered me in the film that the killer, Buffalo Bill, plays off that old "queer people are evil" chestnut. It's a lowball, appealing to and reinforcing the lowest fears. The book makes quite clear that Buffalo Bill is not queer. He's evil, yes, and insane, yes. But not because he's gay or transexual, which he's not. The book goes to extreme lengths to make sure we know that.

All of that to say that I was pleasantly surprised by the book. It was a good, quick read. It's not necessary to read all of this sex/gender-equality stuff into it... that's just what I do. It's perfectly possible to just read the book and enjoy a good thrill.

Girl Walks into a Bar...: Comedy Calamities, Dating Disasters, and a Midlife Miracle 
By Rachel Dratch

Oh, the recent trend of comedienne's memoirs, what a wonderful trend indeed. Both Tina Fey's Bossypants and Mindy Kaling's Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? are books I could pick up and read over and over again. There are parts of this book that are like that (about every other chapter in the first half) but I'm sad to report that this book just doesn't have the same "oomph."

Dratch's story is more... shall we say, sincere? Which is maybe a nice way of saying, less funny? The first half is about her life in comedy and adventures in dating, complete with mayhem and mishaps. The second half is about how she accidentally got pregnant after she thought she would never be able to. Dratch is a funny woman, to be sure, but this book reads more like two good books that got smashed together--leaving both of them a little limp--rather than one cohesive book. Book 1: My time at SNL and life as a comedienne. Book 2: My crazy baby story. Both are good stories, but neither is fully developed.

Gone Girl
By Gillian Flynn

There's actually not a lot you can say about this book without giving away all the good stuff. I'll keep this short and simple: the book begins when Nick Dunne's wife Amy disappears. The first and second parts of this book ("Boy Loses Girl" and "Boy Meets Girl") are so tight, and tense, and delicious that they make up for the less-stunning third act.

I don't read a lot of mysteries and thrillers (please ignore the fact that there are two in this post alone), because I find them a little repetitive. This one is like a bolt of lightening in a dark room. The characters are strong, the writing is smart and nuanced, the story is gripping. The split narratives, Nick's and Amy's, play beautifully off of each other. It's about as good as a book can get without being truly great.